Moving is tough. Down the street, to a new city, or to a new country, it's a lot of hard work. I planned and I planned, I researched and I prepared, I made lists and I checked them off, I set up a master calendar with all our appointments and deadlines, and I felt good pretty good about it all. France is officially behind us, and in retrospect, I did well! I didn't miss many details, I set out a good timeline, and I kept all of our communications and contacts well organized.
But sometimes it just doesn't matter, and this move felt like one of those times. I was prepared, it should have all gone smoothly, but it didn't. Everyone excepts a few hiccups, if you don't leave some wiggle room in your schedule for unexpected delays and last minute tasks, you are setting yourself up for failure. That wasn't the case for us though. We started early and worked daily to make sure we stayed ahead of schedule. And still, everyday seemed to bring a new crisis. By this point, it's starting to feel like someone is watching travel reservations for our names to come up so they can start throwing ninja blades in our path every few hours and see if we manage to dodge them all.
Sometimes it's big things, and sometimes little things. So here's a little taste of what we've been working with over the past 15 days. I think things really started getting rough while we were attempting to enjoy one last holiday in Italy. Everything was settled before we left. All the reservations and appointments were made, both for the vacation and the move, and there were exactly enough days to do everything we needed when we got back without stressing or having to over work ourselves. Then about halfway through our trip, we get a notification from EasyJet (the most un-easy airline I've ever flown) saying our flight back to France had been cancelled. Twice I've flown with EasyJet, and twice, they have left me stranded in cities overnight. There wasn't another reasonable way back to France; we resigned ourselves to an extra night in Rome. I know it doesn't sound so horrible, but we really needed to get back and get going on moving tasks, and more than that, we were ready to get home. We had only three days between vacation and the arrival of movers, and EasyJet took one of them.
We finally made it back to France, a good 24 hours behind schedule, but ready to get moving. We had a two hour drive from the Marseille airport back to Montpellier. About half way through the drive, we get another unfortunate surprise. The little car that has served us reliably for over two years, that we had checked out and inspected and prepped to sell the DAY BEFORE we left for Italy, had an engine light come on. Actually it was two engine lights. So now not only have we lost an entire day, we have an extra problem to deal with, and kind of a big one. A car isn't like a coffee pot, you can't just dump it in the trash if there isn't time to sell it properly. We also needed the car. We had a week in temporary housing, and the only way back and forth between the apartment where we had work to finish up and the place we were sleeping at night was the car. There was no way I could give it up for even one day, I had to have it! We had movers coming in 48 hours, and that had to be the priority; we ignored the car problems. The next day, one of the lights went off as mysteriously and suddenly as it came on. We informed the buyer of the situation, and told him we probably wouldn't have time to get it looked at before we left, but he wanted the car anyway. We kept driving it, and kept ignoring the engine light, and the next day, the second light went off too. Two days of stresses and worry, and the problem worked itself out (at least as far as I know, hopefully the new owner didn't break down on the side of the road the next day).
So we got back from vacation a bit more stressed and irritated than we had hoped, but ready to get to work. We spent the next two days sorting clothes and packing suitcases and trying to decide what is crucial to our lives for the next six or so weeks, when we are hoping to receive our sea shipment. The movers showed up bright and early the morning of the 18th. So early in fact, we had to rush to change out of our pajamas! Have you ever heard of anything starting in France at the hour of
8:30 A.M.?? We weren't really prepared for them, we still had shelves on the walls that needed to be taken down and dirty laundry I rushed to finish, but we managed it in the end. We were all really impressed that the moving company sent a team of four hardworking, efficient men to get the job done in only a day and a half. The packing and loading went smoothly, and then it was straight to work on tearing out the entire kitchen, down to the very last screw in the wall, and repainting JR's room from blue back to white. We had reserved the majority of Saturday and Sunday to spend at the apartment taking care of these jobs as well as any other minor repairs.
That's when Saturday morning threw us another curve ball. JR woke up with a 102.5 fever. Five days away from an international move, and the baby gets sick. By this point, we were all stressing a little bit about the amount of work that needed to be done, and a sick baby was a worry we did not need. We gave him Tylenol for the fever and tried to keep him cool in non-air conditioned summer heat, and by
Monday morning he seemed more or less back to normal. But then
Tuesday morning the vomit came. Luckily (this word feels like a stretch) it didn't last long and he was all better by Wednesday. Just in time really, because we left on Thursday!
So Thursday came. We scheduled our flights over two days to make the journey easier on us all. To do it in one big stretch, you have to wake up
at 4:00 AM to catch the
6:00 flight out of Montpellier, then hang out in Paris for a few hours before the 9 1/2 hour flight to Houston. Because we are traveling with both a baby and a dog, we split it up and overnighted in Paris. So Thursday should have been easy, all we had to do was to get to Paris! We reserved a big taxi van to take us and our 8 suitcases from our temporary apartment to the airport, about a 10 minute drive. Without warning, all of the taxi drivers in Montpellier decided to go on strike. Not only were they refusing to work, they were parking their taxis in the road, blocking the way to the airport. Why? In protest of uber, which I'm pretty sure doesn't even exist in Montpellier yet. There was literally no way to get a car in. The only option was the public bus from the city, meaning we would have to get a ride 30 minutes into the city, then take a bus with all of our luggage 30 minutes back down to the airport. And we found this out about 3 hours before our flight. Panic ensued. We went from on top of things to scrambling to figure out another plan, fast. Fortunately, we have some great friends and colleagues in Montpellier that were willing to drop what they were doing and help us. We wouldn't have made it otherwise. It also turned out that every few hours, the taxi drivers cleared the road for about 15 minutes and let some cars through. And, again if you can call it lucky, we got the timing exactly right. The taxis pulled around the curve right behind us, another 15 seconds and we wouldn't have made it in, but we did. We were spared the trip into the city and the bus ride back down the airport, which would have greatly jeopardized our chances of being at the airport in time for our flight. We still had to work around our taxi driver not showing up, and it sent our stress and frustration levels through the roof, but in the end, it could have been a lot worse. Thursday turned up after that though. We got JR his own seat for the flights and brought his car seat with us, and it was an entirely different experience. My horrible, squirmy, screaming flyer turned into an angel, and both he and the dog snoozed the entire hour and ten minute flight. It's been a long time since Kerry and I were on a plane together and had the luxury of sitting back, relaxing, and talking!
Friday: new day, new crisis. Up early, full of anticipation and excitement, and eager to get going, we arrived at the airport two hours before the flight, with no bags to check and boarding passes in hand. A great start! The boarding passes said terminal 2E, so off we went, ready to get through security and do a little last minute Paris airport souvenir shopping. We reached the entrance for terminal 2E, and found a large crowd standing around looking confused. Eventually word got back to us that someone had left an unattended bag in the terminal, and everyone had to clear out while it was being "destroyed". It was a mess! One airport employee informed us that there was another way around, we could walk about 30 minutes to terminal 2F and then make our way back to the gates in 2E, but it was such a long way around, she recommended we stay put. So we waited in the crowd. For an entire hour. International flights start boarding nearly an hour before take off, so as we watched the minutes tick past, we were getting more and more anxious to get going. Finally, the crowd slowly starts moving. We follow in line, get up to the terminal entrance and check the board to make sure there were no changes for our flight. Except, our flight wasn't up there. Not at all. Our jaws dropped in disbelief and disappointment. Not feeling so good about things anymore. We now have only one hour to get through security, passport control and find our gate. We wasted no time in asking an employee for help. She scanned our boarding passes and replied with, "oh, the terminal has changed, you'll need to head (guess where) to 2F!!! And also, there seems to be a problem with one of the passes, so you'll need to stop at the ticketing counter to sort it out." We didn't have time for any of this! We might as well have showed up 50 minutes before our flight, because we wasted over an hour waiting on nothing. We took off. The quickest way to 2F was through the parking garage, and we ran. With a baby dangling from our arms and a tiny dog in a cage bouncing by my side, we moved as quickly as possible, and arrived sweaty and thirsty at terminal 2F. They let us go through the employee security line when we explained what had happened, which was a big help, but still only left us about 40 minutes to get through passport control and find the gate. We hoofed it, all the way through terminal F, following the signs to gate L46, which took a good 15 minutes because it turns out, the L gates are right next to terminal 2E, so we pretty much ended up back where we started. Finally, L46 was in sight. Boarding had already started, but there was still a decent crowd lined up, so we could relax a little. Now we just had to hope that whatever the "issue" was with one of the boarding passes wouldn't be a big deal. We queued up and handed over our tickets. The problem? Upgraded to business class!! It was a great surprise after a stressful morning of running around, and a nice way top off our European adventure.
It's been pretty smooth sailing since then. The flight went well. The dog didn't make a peep, and JR was decently behaved as well.
We had other minor issues pop up during the move process, these were just some of the biggest ones. We did manage to enjoy a few afternoons on the beach as well before we left, so it definitely wasn't all bad. But it sure did feel like we had more than our fair share of difficulties. We are safely here though, and hoping the worst of it is behind us. There is still a lot of work to do on this side, but we are looking forward to settling in and staying put for a while!
A few snapshots from the journey:
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Packing! What should we label this box? |
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Checking in two carts full of luggage, sending it to Houston! |
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Minnie's set up for the flights. I felt bad leaving her in that little cage for so long, but she didn't seem to mind at all! |
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The boys checking out the business class amenities. JR particularly loved playing with all of the buttons for the lights, seat recliners, and entertainment system. |